What do you want to be labeled as?
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If you stop trying to be someone and surrender yourself to the present moment, you will feel lighter.
You need to understand that it is the eyes of others and the concepts of the past that define who we are. An office worker in Tokyo may be an ordinary office worker, but if she goes to the countryside, she will be a hard-working woman in Tokyo, and if she goes to the world, she will be a hard-working Japanese. Someone else judges you by what they believe. Moreover, it is a concept that comes from one’s few experiences.
The person who wants to be somebody is someone who wants to be associated with a better concept. It’s funny, but it’s probably true.
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